|At some point in our lives, most of us have borrowed too much. If you're in over your head, don't despair. But make no mistake: You must learn to live on what you earn.
First, stop making excuses about why you're in debt. Don't blame the credit card companies or your parents. Put that energy into reducing your debt.
Debt can be extremely stressful, so tell someone you're in financial trouble. If you can't talk to a family member or friend, contact an organization that deals with debt reduction, such as the nonprofit National Foundation for Credit Counseling.
Then get a handle on how big your problem is. You can start with MSN Money's Debt Evaluation Calculator, or you can sit down with pen and paper. When you have no idea how much you owe, simply establishing a number is a critical first step.
Don't avoid the B-word
The best way to start reducing debt is to set up a budget. It's not a punishment; it's a way of knowing exactly where your money goes. You'll need to add up your income and subtract your expenses, then set up a plan.
Don't lie to yourself. Be honest about your spending habits and you'll end up with a more realistic budget.
What's your plan?
- Budget more than the minimum on credit card payments. Paying the minimum is better than nothing, but you wind up paying a lot more in interest as you chip away at the balances.
- Start an emergency fund -- a savings account that should grow to at least three months of expenses. Even $10 a week can help if it means you don't have to visit a payday lender two months from now. Without an emergency fund, unexpected costs or loss of income can drive you deeper into debt.
Use your budget to help you plan your debt-reduction strategy. List all of your debts, from the highest interest rate to the lowest. Aggressively pay down the highest-rate balances while making on-time minimum payments on the others. Your budget will dictate how much you can devote to paying down your balances each month.
In addition, consider these tips:
If you can't earn more money, you'll need to spend less. Try these tips:
- If you have the money in savings, pay off what you can. The amount of savings income you get is usually dwarfed by interest rates you pay on your debts.
- Use any extra cash -- bonuses, extra paychecks, lottery winnings -- to pay down debts.
- Volunteer to work overtime, or get a second job.
Consolidation is a dangerous road
- Eat at home when possible. Avoid buying lattes and fast food.
- Go cash-only. After the bills are paid, allot yourself a certain amount of cash for gas, groceries, etc. When the cash is gone, the fun is done.
- Forgo premium cable-TV channels and high-speed Internet service. Your public library typically not only offers free Wi-Fi but computer access as well.
As you grapple with repayment, the temptation is great to borrow from Peter to pay Paul in one lump sum. You might be better off paying your debts bit by bit.
Face up to your credit cards
- Consider consolidating your loans only if you have the discipline to not use your credit cards. Consolidation means you take out one loan to cover all of your existing payments. If you do transfer a balance from a card, destroy that card so you won't be tempted to run up the balance again.
- Don't use a home-equity loan to pay off credit card debt. Even if the home-equity rates are lower than your cards' interest rates, trouble looms if you run up your balances again.
- Don't borrow from your 401k. The closer you get to retirement, the more you'll regret it.
- Skip credit-repair clinics that may charge you hundreds of dollars to fix your credit record.
- Don't stretch to buy a house, even if everyone tells you it's OK. Buying too much house could mean giving up other things you want: vacations, eating out or college for your kids.
Once you're out of debt, how can you stay that way? Of course, stick to your budget. In addition, figure out how to deal with credit cards, which likely got you into this mess in the first place.
When the collectors are knocking
- Stop charging right now.
- Cut up all but one of your cards, the one with the lowest interest rate. Use that card only for emergencies.
- If you continue to use your credit cards, pay in full every month and avoid interest charges altogether.
- Pull your credit reports once a year and check them for errors.
- Call your creditors and ask for lower rates.
- Leave your credit cards at home. Shop with a list and buy only what's on the list; don't be tempted by sale items you don't need.
- Don't use retail-store credit cards for the discounts. Chances are that card carries a high interest rate that you'll have to deal with if you don't pay off your balance each month.
If you've gotten in so deep that debt collectors are at the door, know your rights:
Whatever you do, don't give up. You didn't get into debt overnight, and you won't get out that quickly. Getting out of debt takes time and patience, but it pays big dividends down the road.
- Debt collectors may not harass, oppress or abuse you or any third party they contact.
- They may not falsely imply that they are government representatives or that you have committed a crime.
- They may not tell you that you will be arrested if you do not pay your debts.